determined to overcome this storm part 3

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As you've read the book, that's a great start and let's get you into problem solving mode. The first part of that is to determine what your goals are. Have you done that bit? Do they comply with the guidelines MWD sets out? I'm not prying and asking you to post them just get them written and correctly structured so they have impact for you. 

If you don't know what you really want to achieve, when you want it to be achieved by and how you are going to do it, there is no real purpose for you. People with purpose and direction thrive and move forward. It's not easy but they do it anyway, become one of those people and the answers to the points you made above will come clear to you.

Avanti... I have written my goals. I want to achieve them. Of course I do. That's why I'm here is to learn how to. I'm getting stuff done but slowly. It's hard for me to just do stuff right away... I promised myself a few things I want to accomplish in the month of October. So far 3 out 5 things have been done... my main goal is to win my husband back with a new me. Happy, confident, high self esteem. I'm reading like 3 different books plus bible... slowly like a turtle things are getting done! !!!