What a Wonder-Filled World...

[holdingon]

And that I was disappointed he did not acknowledge my question... that I was unclear on why he putting up the walls between us after we had taken them down, what his reasons are given that we've agreed on any M issues and had seemed to be on the same page, etc. I said I am not going to stand in his way, but feel my questions are fair ones, esp. since he is pushing me so hard for paperwork.

Wonder,
You cannot force him to have an R talk with you. And right now, I am not sure his answers would be what you WANT to hear, nor what you NEED to hear. As someone told me LONG ago, why are you asking an MLCer to make SENSE when they don't have a CLUE what they are doing?

Yes, I know you are hurt because things were going SO well. Yes, I know you are angry about the papers. But you cannot control your H. And asking him over and over the same questions, trying to make sense out of a senseless situation is not going to help you.

Do you have an attorney? Tell your H to have his attny contact your attourney. Take yourself out of the D equation. You don't want the D, stop talking to H about the D. Just say, oh my attny is handling that...

Hang in there, wonder. You are in a rough place. Work on YOU. Do for YOU. Get your mind off of your H. Be so busy having so much fun you couldn't possibly spend two seconds thinking about what nonsense he is up to.