STBX called tonight and said that her L set the court date for Oct 13. STBX tells me that she still goes back and forth between just seeing it through and deal with the loss AND realizing she's not being sensible (moving forward with D). She asks if we could get together one night just the two of us before her court date. She pitches it in a way like a last hurrah, some last grasp at clarity before its all over.
In a way, this makes me feel pretty cheap and used. Plus, realistically , I know nothing can happen in one night to repair years of damage. However, how do you say no, knowing that doing so guarantees the D will be final in a weeks time? So, of course, I said I was interested but I didn't overreact or anything. We just left it at we would figure out the details in the coming days.
No pressure, right? Geez...
Suggestions anybody?
Me:35 W:30 D:4 S:1 Bomb: 01/08/15, discovered EA & PA In House Separation: 01/14/15 W moves out: 04/05/15 I tell OM's W about A: 04/15/15 W serves D papers: 06/19/15 Mediation: 09/16/15 D final: 12/01/15
