Still getting to understand how this posting/replying works. I shared with Cadet above “We both work and this weekend I asked her about withdrawing the cash from our checking account. She replied she don’t have to tell me. Historically, making a purchase or withdrawing $150 or more was something we communicated. For the past 1.5 years she felt she doesn’t have to tell me anything” suppose this is her 180 “(this comes from her feeling that I made her feel guilty for buying or doing things for herself; I see that now but NEVER did that intentionally). And yes, $2k is a lot of $$ IMHO.”
Being new to resources (website and DB/DR books) but have been fight an uphill battle with WW (doing all the things a LBH should NOT do) I see that 180’s do work. But my 180’s are the things my WW has been asking for for many years. So, my sit, the 180’s go against Sandi’s list for what a LBH should do with a WW. What do I do?? Help??
