i am also curious if the advice would be to go dark when she does leave.
we also have to tell the children now. I asked her how she wants to do it. she said we should be honest. I said are you sure because although i am in a different place now, i did not want this or initiate it. Asked her if she was telling the kids the whole truth. didnt really get a response on that.


M 37
W 34

T 12
M 8
D 7
S 4

Need break 4/12/15
W no ring 7/7/15

Separate room 4/12/15
Separate living suggested 8/15
W moved out 11/1/15