Hi Sotto,

how was your weekend in the end? (ignoring the Rugby)

I like the way RD set things out as i do think its much easier to see things from the outside. Looking at your situation you clearly enforced a boundary far better than so many others have and then have conducted yourself expertly.

From the outside we can look in and see that your H is looking for something and we can also see that had he looked properly he would have seen he already had whatever it is he is looking for. He may or may not ever realise and then he has a truck load of work to do so I doubt anything will be quick.

You've been here for nearly a year now and a lot has happened in that time, some bad but a lot of it good and like Job said, you've definitely risen from the ashes. I'm curious what thoughts and goals do you have for the next 12 months?

Have a great evening smile

Last edited by jim0987; 10/05/15 06:59 PM.

Both mid 30s, 2 young kids
BD 7sep14
XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1
D paperwork in progress