Hi Lou, sounds like a good plan. I think it may be an idea to purely see how spending a little time in eachother's company feels. Like me, you haven't seen your H in a while and maybe it is best to just start reconnecting on a friendly level, and put anything more complicated for a later stage.

To me, things that fall into the 'more complicated' bracket would be romance, ML, R talks and so on. If you keep things at a friendly and relaxed....let's just spend a little time in eachother's company....that may be best. I know you've posted before about the 'will he feel that attraction to me again' concern. Well, he may or he may not....but I wouldn't rush into anything major this time around....plenty of time to get to know each other again..

JMHO...and what do I know really!! As for what to wear. Well, I would just dress to suit yourself and so you feel attractive and don't overthink that one.

I'll be thinking of you and hoping all goes well xx

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