Quote: I never mentioned it and the only thing i would say was "I do not want this, but i won't fight it. I will give it to you if you go through with it."
You took the word out of my mouth! I also said somthing like this. I stated that I didn't want the D, but if H thought that it would make him happy, I wouldn't fight it. That I was not going to be the one to get one, as I think our R has a chance at a reconcilation.
They say they want one, but do they really? Is it there pain talking, them not wanting to hurt us anymore? Who knows, all I know is that those words work, it hurt me to say them, but they needed to be said. Since I was the one to file, I decided that I needed to get my point across and that H either had to shot, $hit or get off the toilet!
Hang in there, sometimes they have to go through the D, before they realize that we are NOT the problem! This is not the end!
