Having another hard day - my previous post has really gotten my mind working overdrive. I just don't know what to do. I have finished the book, tried very hard to detach and GAL, and really work on the 37.

So, I haven't texted any except in response - and definitely haven't called or emailed at all. I am finding that journaling is great when I feel the need to text or whatever. Also, no talk of us or our future or any of the like. We do spend time together, but that's for the kids' sake. In counseling, she talked of us doing stuff together until she moves to her new station. She said she doesn't want it to be a "she has them for something" and vice versa. It makes it extremely hard to fully follow her separation guidelines, but I am doing my best. I mean, we aren't doing anything at all in regards to relationship stuff. Nothing - just coexisting, becoming comfortable with each other and working on our friendship.

I want this marriage to work out so much. Gosh I miss her so much.

Communication is our main issue. If we can get that down, then according to her, things really stand a chance. Can anyone give some advice on becoming better at communication?

Last edited by Evil_E; 10/05/15 05:36 PM.
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