Ghost.
This is on my signature and it was what helped me see a way out, maybe it will help you.

"Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can."
~UrWorthy

Maximus - I saved your post. Thank you for that.

M46,W41
D16,D18
M22,T25
BD 11/12
W moved out 01/13
Piecing 10/13
Divorced 01/15
"Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can."
UrWorthy