Where to begin?

[Dawgs]

Thank you, Thornton. I have really been trying. The hardest part of GAL'ing is that she is in the house (but doesn't really get in from work until sometime between 6 and 7). I have restarted my hobbies that I used to do, but it is kind of slow and really hard to do.

I am still writing in my journal so that keeps the texting to non-existent. No real updates on our situation, though.

However, I do have a few questions that I am curious and maybe these can just be filed in the "over active imagination" file.

First, my youngest started pulling stuff out of my W's work bag yesterday (the W was off "shopping" with a friend - more on that later) and pulled out almost everything. While I was putting it back in, I found the following:

1) The listing to a house some 20+ miles away (since her work friends live in the vicinity of her base, that would make the drive to work almost 2 hours...), which I found odd. I did not ask her about it, but noted the address for research later. Is this something I should be concerned about?

2) Yet another new sex toy. Now, this was one that I think was in an empty box (the box was one in the same) I found which prompted me to look just to make sure. When I did, I found a receipt for other sex toys and stuff that she had shipped to another female friend's house (receipt dated almost two months ago). Now, the question that formed was that was she letting the friend borrow it (yuck) or is there something deeper? Something doesn't add up and some have told me that the friend is bi-sexual or maybe even outright.

3) Although I didn't question her activities yesterday on this so-called shopping trip, she was gone from early morning to fairly late (I kept the kids, which was an absolute joy). She said some things about but was so vague... Oh well, just wondering on that one.

What does everyone think? Am I a victim of an over active imagination???