Thanks for stopping by. It seems when the spouse sets their mind to something; it gets done, whether it will solve their issues or not.
Quote: seeing "dissolving" his M as a way to feel better, rather than choosing to create solutions.
Right now, the solution is to get out of M and R with the spouse, because clearly we are the cause of all their issues, problems, beliefs, etc. I think they hurry and push and want to get through so they will not doubt. They can say, well it is done.
Wish we had the answers and wish we knew why we keep holding on to someone who left us a long time ago?
