First Post, She just Left, Very unsure

[JulieH]

I hope I'm starting to turn the corner of accepting that there's nothing I can do to change her. But there's a lot I can do to change me.

This is great. Working on goals is the best thing you can do. I don't think any of us truly follow the rules all the time. And even if you do it doesn't guarantee anything anyway. It's hard to even know what the rules are when our situations are different as well. I find my DB coach tells me things not advised on the forum. Your in the frontline.