I don't know your relationship with your mom, but I deal with an extremely immature and spiteful mother. I think they mean to help but are just at an entirely different emotional level. I will give you an example...when my husband was coming to pick up my boys he was late as usual. Of course this was upsetting me. She actually started going around making bets as to what time he would arrive to pick them up. She was using this sing song voice and it was just so immature and upsetting. I know he's selfish but I am having a hard time coping and this was so instigative. its like can't she see, this doesn't change the situation or hurt husband, it only hurts me.
Just wanted to share cause maybe our situations are similar.
Last edited by JulieH; 10/05/1501:59 PM.
Me: 42 H: 43 Twins age 5 Physically Separated 7/2015
