LBH w/ a WW trying to save my M

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Well....tried to write this late last night and didn't get it all in. When she was going through the divorce paperwork and I was asking questions about it she said " last week you said you didn't want this divorce and now you're all gung ho about it"
I then stopped, sat down and told her " I do not want a divorce. I do not want a marriage like we had and I believe we could have a very healthy marriage". She said "Well your behaviors are not making me want to stay M. I don't know who you're getting advice from but kicking me out of the bedroom makes me Hate you and further enforces I'm doing the right thing. You being gone all the time and not spending time with the family makes me feel like you don't want to be around us."