Lou, You've got this! I would keep things as simple as possible and just enjoy myself. I wouldn't rush into anything w/him because he's still not baked fully. You'll know more when he's there in front of you. Listen to what he has to say, but also watch his body language because that can be telling. If he suggests have sex, just be sure to have some protection as you don't know what he may have picked up along the way. (I know you already know this.)
I'm glad you've been enjoying your vacation and now you have something else to look forward to. Go and have a great time visiting your son and your h. Keep the expectations dialed down and just see what he has to say and where things go.
Good luck!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
