Quote: Even tho, he responded with silence, I would sit with this for a while to see if he will offers you an answer. It may take him a few days to put those thoughts together in a way he feels he can present them to you.
This makes sense, KAW. I hope he would present them to me since the last I knew D was the wrong thing to do and he wanted to come home. Now suddenly, he "has to" do it?
H sent me an email about working on my web site today and since he asked if I'd made decisions on the papers, I asked if he'd made any decisions about whether he wanted to share the reasons for his change of mind with me. I also told him I've been busy (we're having a layoff tomorrow) and would try to get them resolved by end of week.
What IS the big rush here? Does he think there is some magic elixir in those papers? Or is this OW pushing him this hard to get rid of his W already? (and the obvious Q... who would want to associate with someone like that???)
I'm hoping it didn't sound flip, because I meant it genuinely.
Also asked how he was doing, and said I'd been thinking of him the past few days. Thanked him for the work he is doing for me. It is such a big thing for him to do for me.
Quote: Often, they were on the theme that I was just thinking about her ... a card that said, "I hope this helps get you thru your day." ... "thank you for being you"
Hmm. I stopped doing these things after the D papers were handed to me, but perhaps it would be OK to continue them on occasion... as long as I don't expect anything in return and continued about my own life as well.
