Just poppin in to say hi! I have my belly button pierced and i just love it, not that many other people see it as i'm height challeged (for some reason midrift tops just aren't on me!), not tatts, but was planning one for my birthday, oh, and i'm irish also!
Have you ever seen the movie 'Field of Dreams'? I like the line 'If you build it, they will come', i think that you can sort of work this into your dbing. Like, if your happy, confident, funny etc people want to be around you. Even if you have to fake those things at first! Not that i think you have too!
I think you just have to take a back sit and watch what your H does. I wouldn't 'help' towards this D, just do what you have to, when you have to.
This is where it is so easy to get frustrated!! It's almost like he was making sure you still cared, before filing, inorder to bring you back into the game and for him to have a measure of control.
I think that it may be how you have reacted to the whole D thing that may have him thrown at this time. I'm sure he expected the tears and begging etc. I know and you know that this isn't what you want, but he!! if he wants it so badly, let him do the work to get it and then give it to him. I guess this might be the only way he can see if this is what he really wants.
