LBH w/ a WW trying to save my M

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On Saturday morning she gave me a hard time saying we needed to create a schedule of who was going to watch our daughter bc I was gone thurs night, friday night and was going to be gone Sunday afternoon. She said it wasn't fair. I said sleeping with another man isn't fair either as I pulled away. She then sent this text message which I felt was a little confusing

"I spent over an hour yesterday with my IC and by saying this I am not trying in anyway to reconcile. I am not sleeping w anyone!!!!! But honestly, I don't care what you think. If it makes you feel better about yourself, think whatever you want about me"

I said
"I came home thurs. No one was home and I left. I went out last night. You have plans today/tonight. I have plans tomorrow."

She said
" I don't care that you're not around. We just need to make a a schedule"

Here are my thoughts. She mentioned her IC and reconciliation bc they are talking about it and it's not off the table. It's being considered. When she said "if it makes you feel better about yourself" she thinks I'm seeing someone bc I've been gone from the house so much and she does care that I'm away from the house a lot or she wouldn't mention it.

Any thoughts out there?