So NEVER bring up OW. Got it! I sincerely hope I don't run into her while she's here. It's taking all the strength I have not to google her, but I know that it won't make me feel better, so I won't.

Love the quote. I will try.

I know i'm not a victim, but sometimes I do want to scream about this not being fair: I have to take care of a child full time AND work at the same time. H is going away for months again soon and he is the only one who can take her once in a while.
I put myself in this situation, I have to accept that. Made my bed and all...

Mahhty, thank you for your comments. They mean the world to me.