Defacto - I couldn't agree more! The constant discussion prevented me from disconnecting. And sometimes the thought of posting felt daunting, perhaps in a way I didn't want to discuss it. I'm in a much better place with myself, understanding my needs and wants, then I was. I think taking a break helped me achieve that. I'll probably remain pretty erratic on here during the upcoming months.

That [censored] about Mediation starting last month. Been there. Very painful. This is how stupid I was. When she told me we were going to mediation I was relevied. "Finally we are going to work through our problems.," I said. Nope. Not that kind of mediation. Good luck!


Me: 32 W: 29 T:8 M: 6 D4 S2
M - 8/2008
W is not happy - 1/2014
W wants D - 9/2014
W moved out - 11/2014
D filed - 1/23/2015
D'ed - 2/25/2015
Gave X the Letter - 11/10/2015