Gmum - live and learn. Don't beat yourself up about it, as long as you learn from it.
Insecurity... That's tough bc there is all this [censored] going on. So obviously you don't feel confident. Adapt. Act. Fake it. Do whatever you must, don't let him see your pain and don't ask about the OW. Act as if you turned over a new leaf or had an epiphany.
I love this quote about adapting with strength and grace.
“You must be shapeless, formless, like water. When you pour water in a cup, it becomes the cup. When you pour water in a bottle, it becomes the bottle. When you pour water in a teapot, it becomes the teapot. Water can drip and it can crash. Become like water my friend.”
Sleep.... You don't want to know my answer. I suppose everyone is different.
Me: 32 W: 29 T:8 M: 6 D4 S2 M - 8/2008 W is not happy - 1/2014 W wants D - 9/2014 W moved out - 11/2014 D filed - 1/23/2015 D'ed - 2/25/2015 Gave X the Letter - 11/10/2015