Thanks guys. I'm glad I posted here first. I was having a sad moment the other day. I don't think it's necessary to tell him, I'm glad you all reminded me.
I realized today that I've already started to become a better version of myself. Previously I was such an introvert and would hide behind my husband, but I realized for the last few weeks I've been making small talk with strangers at the dog park, in the grocery store, on the street etc. This is exciting!
Me: early 30s Husband: early 30s Married 3 years, together 6 No children
ILYBINILWY: 3/2015 He asks for divorce: 4/2015 Moves out for good: 5/2015 I start the divorce process 8/2015