Originally Posted By: Avanti
Hey Defacto as we've heard nothing more from you should we assume that your D is now complete and you are onwards and upwards without your XW?


Hello Avanti,

I wish I had some resolution, any resolution really. All that's left is for STBX to sign and make the D final before a judge. It's been a few weeks since mediation and I really don't know what the hold up is?

I'm friendly in our interactions but I don't pursue. There have been no discussions about R since I tried to give STBX an alternate vision a few days after the mediation. Truthfully, STBX doesn't seem all that interested, but then she will ask for details about my plans and insist on giving me multiple hugs when she drops off the kids. Today, she made a point to remind me that her birthday is coming up LOL.

I just want this all to be over so I can close this chapter of my life. However, I know I can only control me at this point.

On a positive note, I've started writing music again and am excited to be starting a new project with some new players this week.


Me:35 W:30
D:4 S:1
Bomb: 01/08/15, discovered EA & PA
In House Separation: 01/14/15
W moves out: 04/05/15
I tell OM's W about A: 04/15/15
W serves D papers: 06/19/15
Mediation: 09/16/15
D final: 12/01/15