Can ALL marriages be saved?

[mahhhty]

Sometimes I still get a little confused about how to DB. If I'm happy and aloof, isn't that just going to make him relieved? Then he can go off and enjoy OW without feeling guilty?.

There will always be guilt because you both have a child. It is about doing what works. And begging pleading nagging negotiating reasoning with a spouse who is out the door doesn't work. Imagine courting someone new... What are they interested in? Conversation looks confidence etc. Do those! Even better is if you can figure out or remember what drew you guys together in the first place.

Ps homeland is a great show!