Walkaway Wife/WW/MLC Part 2

[jjal]

Hello, jjal! Just checking on you. I hope everything is ok?

-Judy

Hi Judy,
Everything seems to be going well for me, GAL you know. Not sure about wife. We've had a few short emails, mostly about bank/bills. But nothing about the relationship.

The door is still open, but after 90 days of detachment now, I've had some realizations. She started checking out late last year. I remember certain statements she'd made, and some things she'd done. Even then, still we had talks of future, vacations and remodeling bathrooms. Then, this spring a one week business trip with a new divorced female co-worker moved it along. New running group about the same time didn't help either.

So, I've stayed away from the website for a few days mainly to get it all off my mind. And, anyway, went out with friends the last 2 Friday nights and while I wasn't looking for someone else, I discovered I still had it and being single might not be so scary. I chatted with a few women and had a good time.

Quite day today at home. Cleaned and cooked meals for the next 2-3 days.

I see your situation has changed, glad to see that. I hope y'all can work through it all!!!