Just reading through your thread, and I'm sorry to find you here. I have just one question for you, if you were the one having an affair, would you H think the OM isn't a dealbreaker?
I know you love your H dearly and want him back, but deep down do you think it's necessary to tell him this now? Keep focusing on you (I know easier said than done)as at the moment YOU are the only person that matters. Take care of yourself.
