I got a lot out of your reflective post this morning, I've read it several times. You sound like you're at where I'd like to be today. You're inspiring me.
Quote: But I think sometimes my posts sound more down than I actually feel. I really feel very upbeat and positive about my future. Just very introspective about where H is at. Feeling a bit selfish these days because I'm not posting as much to others, but I have needed all my resources to finish my projects and process my own thoughts!
I think this is great! I'm glad to hear that you feel even better than you sound, because you usually sound amazingly good. You have bounced back from this latest in a way that is so impressive to me, with the balance you've found between detaching, caring for yourself and growing, and still DBing with your H. It strikes me many times that he could be SUCH a lucky man, if he would stop getting in his own way!!