Can ALL marriages be saved?

[beckyb]

Gmum, I can identify with part of your sitch. Here's the thing...if detaching and giving him space to figure things out don't work, then nothing is going to work. This chapter of your life is closed. A new chapter is being written. It may, or may not, include your H. What it looks like it is up to you. Focus on self-respect and setting the boundaries you need - our of respect for yourself not out of punishment. Good luck.