Parents: help me parenting while separated (2)

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SunnyB,
Thank you so much for your opinion.
I can see distinctly now and I will put your advise to good use.
But don't rest much. I will have lots of other doubts and questions to ask .
It is so strange that when I read others sitches I can understand what is going on but when it comes to mine I cannot see clearly.

STBXW and I are having the kids every other weekend.
Plus, I will have the kids with me two nights a week and will take them to school the next morning.
The kids are just fine. School performance has not been affected and with us they act normal.
Maybe because we such good parents and, apart from having grown apart, we have never treated each other disrespectfully.