Thanks so much for posting that Mleigh. Wow, that does offer some powerful insight into what is happening from the perspective of a former MLCer. That kind of information is hard to find as many guys (and women) don't post so openly about such a dark time in their lives.

Interesting in terms of how the LBS in perceived too and that 'motherly' definitely isn't the way to go. However, compassion and independence are noticed and do matter.

I would be interested to read more from that poster. Do you know if their threads are still available on the forum?

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We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus