This is hard for you. It is hard for everyone who goes through this. We are angry, confused , sad, scared, and want it to stop. DBing means you do not follow your instincts and chase the dog. You have to do what works, let go. It is the most effective thing you can do right now. Don't ask him about it. Don't make snide comments to him.
Work on yourself. Remember the push pull dynamic in relationships.
Me: 30's W: 30's M: 12yrs EA: Started 3/2015 MC Started: 4/2015 She moved out and served 6/2015 PA: Confirmed 10/5/2015 2 young kids
"If you do not stand for something you will fall for anything."