"I don't think I've posted on your thread yet as I am so new and without any good advice."
This is a common misconception. You don't need to be a vet or to have great advice to post. You took the time to post, and that support is extremely helpful!
Me: 32 W: 29 T:8 M: 6 D4 S2 M - 8/2008 W is not happy - 1/2014 W wants D - 9/2014 W moved out - 11/2014 D filed - 1/23/2015 D'ed - 2/25/2015 Gave X the Letter - 11/10/2015