I've been thinking a lot about writing a letter to WW, without even sending it, but strangely, I lose interest as soon as I sit in front of my computer. It spins in my head, sometimes obsessively, yet it bores me when it's time to actually do it. Oh well.
Mozza - I've caught up on your situation. This quote caught me. As someone who has felt this way for a very long time. You should go back and re-read some of your posts that you wrote to me during my struggle.
Writing a letter appeals to many people and for different reasons. Its appealed to me multiple times and often obsessively (as you have mentioned). My reasons for writing has changed multiple times throughout the journey. In the beginning, I wanted to make an impact, or be heard (ultimately to change her mind). And even now I still have an urge and believe I will, to try and bridge the gap of our communication (very similar to Crimson and his story).
I have to admit even now, I still think of writing a letter and including the contradictions, statistics, the things I learned, her negative contributions, lack of remorse, and her passiveness. But I won't. What I need to do is work on forgiving and letting go of that piece of the puzzle.
My two cents. Good luck.
Me: 32 W: 29 T:8 M: 6 D4 S2 M - 8/2008 W is not happy - 1/2014 W wants D - 9/2014 W moved out - 11/2014 D filed - 1/23/2015 D'ed - 2/25/2015 Gave X the Letter - 11/10/2015