What do you mean? There aren't any boundaries you can set in this situation, unless he's planning to take the kids. If he's not, you have to accept there's nothing you can do. I'm so sorry.

Me: 48 H: 50 - Married 21 - 3-S: 29,19,19 2-D: 27,26
BD: 08/2015 - D filed & OW disc: 09/2015

"Surrender to What Is, Let Go of What Was, Have Faith in What Will Be." -S Ricotti