Hi RD and Job, thanks so much for your posts, both of which I found really helpful. RD, for taking the time to set things out as you see them, and Job for offering some further insight and clarification. I'm grateful to you both.

Well, I did an extra shift at the bookstore today, and I'm just back from Mum-sitting. It is an evening in for me and I have the rugby on. Hope everyone is having a good weekend xx

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus