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Re: It's been almost a year. Jpeg #2612145 10/03/15 07:11 PM
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Ancaire Member A Joined: Aug 2015 Posts: 1,716 Southern US	Gotcha! So you're stuck with the task of telling H the kids don't want to see him? My advice, for what it's worth, is just letting him know it's all about his choices and behaviors that they're so upset with. Keep stressing that part. Don't let him make it about him as a person. That will feed into his self-pity. It will, either way, but if you focus on the fact that he decided to behave in this manner, it puts the blame firmly where it belongs without turning into an argument. I suspect he will try. Just validate and hang up if you need to. Last edited by Ancaire; 10/03/15 07:12 PM. Me: 48 H: 50 - Married 21 - 3-S: 29,19,19 2-D: 27,26 BD: 08/2015 - D filed & OW disc: 09/2015 "Surrender to What Is, Let Go of What Was, Have Faith in What Will Be." -S Ricotti

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It's been almost a year.	Jpeg	09/03/15 11:08 PM
Re: It's been almost a year.	Cadet	09/04/15 12:37 AM
Re: It's been almost a year.	Cadet	09/04/15 12:44 AM
Re: It's been almost a year.	Wet	09/04/15 01:36 AM
Re: It's been almost a year.	dwh15	09/04/15 01:53 AM
Re: It's been almost a year.	Cadet	09/04/15 01:40 PM
Re: It's been almost a year.	Jpeg	09/04/15 09:36 PM
Re: It's been almost a year.	Jpeg	09/05/15 12:07 PM
Re: It's been almost a year.	Jpeg	09/04/15 09:23 PM
Re: It's been almost a year.	Jpeg	09/06/15 10:47 PM
Re: It's been almost a year.	Jpeg	09/08/15 09:08 PM
Re: It's been almost a year.	jim0987	09/11/15 04:58 PM
Re: It's been almost a year.	Sotto	09/11/15 07:05 PM
Re: It's been almost a year.	Jpeg	09/12/15 12:40 AM
Re: It's been almost a year.	Jpeg	09/12/15 01:10 AM
Re: It's been almost a year.	dwh15	09/12/15 02:40 AM
Re: It's been almost a year.	Sotto	09/12/15 06:46 AM
Re: It's been almost a year.	Jpeg	09/12/15 02:18 PM
Re: It's been almost a year.	Jpeg	09/12/15 02:37 PM
Re: It's been almost a year.	jim0987	09/12/15 03:13 PM
Re: It's been almost a year.	Jpeg	09/20/15 04:02 AM
Re: It's been almost a year.	Jpeg	09/20/15 04:03 AM
Re: It's been almost a year.	Ancaire	09/20/15 04:09 AM
Re: It's been almost a year.	Jpeg	09/20/15 04:17 AM
Re: It's been almost a year.	Ancaire	09/20/15 04:24 AM
Re: It's been almost a year.	Ancaire	09/20/15 04:29 AM
Re: It's been almost a year.	Jpeg	09/20/15 04:34 AM
Re: It's been almost a year.	Jpeg	09/20/15 04:35 AM
Re: It's been almost a year.	gonegrl	09/20/15 03:58 PM
Re: It's been almost a year.	Jpeg	09/20/15 09:27 PM
Re: It's been almost a year.	Ancaire	09/20/15 09:39 PM
Re: It's been almost a year.	Jpeg	09/21/15 12:47 AM
Re: It's been almost a year.	Azzork	09/21/15 12:53 AM
Re: It's been almost a year.	Jpeg	09/21/15 01:08 AM
Re: It's been almost a year.	Azzork	09/21/15 01:13 AM
Re: It's been almost a year.	Jpeg	09/21/15 01:31 AM
Re: It's been almost a year.	Jpeg	09/21/15 11:43 AM
Re: It's been almost a year.	Azzork	09/21/15 01:01 PM
Re: It's been almost a year.	Jpeg	09/22/15 11:46 AM
Re: It's been almost a year.	Azzork	09/22/15 12:30 PM
Re: It's been almost a year.	Ancaire	09/22/15 06:04 PM
Re: It's been almost a year.	Jpeg	09/23/15 10:30 AM
Re: It's been almost a year.	Sotto	09/23/15 11:16 AM
Re: It's been almost a year.	Jpeg	09/25/15 12:43 AM
Re: It's been almost a year.	Ancaire	09/25/15 02:09 AM
Re: It's been almost a year.	Jpeg	09/25/15 11:40 AM
Re: It's been almost a year.	dday	09/25/15 11:51 AM
Re: It's been almost a year.	Jpeg	09/25/15 07:51 PM
Re: It's been almost a year.	Ancaire	09/25/15 08:15 PM
Re: It's been almost a year.	Jpeg	09/25/15 08:21 PM
Re: It's been almost a year.	gonegrl	09/25/15 08:36 PM
Re: It's been almost a year.	Jpeg	09/25/15 09:13 PM
Re: It's been almost a year.	dday	09/25/15 10:25 PM
Re: It's been almost a year.	Jpeg	09/26/15 12:10 AM
Re: It's been almost a year.	Jpeg	09/26/15 12:12 AM
Re: It's been almost a year.	Azzork	09/26/15 12:32 AM
Re: It's been almost a year.	Jpeg	09/26/15 01:52 AM
Re: It's been almost a year.	dday	09/26/15 03:18 AM
Re: It's been almost a year.	Jpeg	09/26/15 12:56 PM
Re: It's been almost a year.	dday	09/26/15 01:21 PM
Re: It's been almost a year.	Jpeg	09/27/15 03:58 AM
Re: It's been almost a year.	Ancaire	09/27/15 07:12 PM
Re: It's been almost a year.	Jpeg	09/27/15 10:16 PM
Re: It's been almost a year.	Jpeg	09/27/15 11:02 PM
Re: It's been almost a year.	Ancaire	09/28/15 12:15 AM
Re: It's been almost a year.	Jpeg	09/28/15 12:43 AM
Re: It's been almost a year.	Jpeg	09/30/15 12:08 AM
Re: It's been almost a year.	Sotto	09/30/15 06:55 AM
Re: It's been almost a year.	Jpeg	09/30/15 11:56 AM
Re: It's been almost a year.	Sotto	09/30/15 12:05 PM
Re: It's been almost a year.	Jpeg	10/01/15 11:53 AM
Re: It's been almost a year.	Jpeg	10/03/15 02:23 AM
Re: It's been almost a year.	Ancaire	10/03/15 03:24 AM
Re: It's been almost a year.	Jpeg	10/03/15 01:53 PM
Re: It's been almost a year.	Jpeg	10/03/15 02:10 PM
Re: It's been almost a year.	Ancaire	10/03/15 03:18 PM
Re: It's been almost a year.	Ancaire	10/03/15 03:26 PM
Re: It's been almost a year.	Jpeg	10/03/15 06:42 PM
Re: It's been almost a year.	Ancaire	10/03/15 07:11 PM
Re: It's been almost a year.	gonegrl	10/03/15 09:18 PM
Re: It's been almost a year.	Jpeg	10/03/15 09:26 PM
Re: It's been almost a year.	Ancaire	10/03/15 09:59 PM
Re: It's been almost a year.	Jpeg	10/07/15 11:38 AM
Re: It's been almost a year.	Jpeg	10/08/15 11:54 AM
Re: It's been almost a year.	Jpeg	10/08/15 08:42 PM
Re: It's been almost a year.	TxHubby	10/08/15 09:00 PM
Re: It's been almost a year.	Jpeg	10/08/15 09:16 PM
Re: It's been almost a year.	TxHubby	10/08/15 09:39 PM
Re: It's been almost a year.	Jpeg	10/08/15 09:25 PM
Re: It's been almost a year.	TxHubby	10/08/15 09:53 PM
Re: It's been almost a year.	Jpeg	10/09/15 01:28 AM
Re: It's been almost a year.	TxHubby	10/08/15 08:55 PM
Re: It's been almost a year.	Jpeg	10/09/15 12:35 AM
Re: It's been almost a year.	Jpeg	10/09/15 12:36 AM
Re: It's been almost a year.	Cadet	10/09/15 01:27 PM
Re: It's been almost a year.	job	10/09/15 06:32 PM
Re: It's been almost a year.	job	10/10/15 08:24 PM
Re: It's been almost a year.	Azzork	09/26/15 02:47 PM
Re: It's been almost a year.	Jpeg	09/26/15 07:21 PM
Re: It's been almost a year.	Ancaire	09/26/15 07:29 PM
Re: It's been almost a year.	Jpeg	09/26/15 07:31 PM
Re: It's been almost a year.	Ancaire	09/26/15 07:37 PM
Re: It's been almost a year.	Azzork	09/26/15 07:44 PM
Re: It's been almost a year.	Jpeg	09/26/15 11:16 PM
Re: It's been almost a year.	Azzork	09/26/15 11:53 PM
Re: It's been almost a year.	Ancaire	09/26/15 03:19 AM
Re: It's been almost a year.	Jpeg	09/26/15 12:18 PM
Re: It's been almost a year.	Fogg	09/26/15 12:26 PM
Re: It's been almost a year.	Ancaire	09/26/15 12:28 AM
Re: It's been almost a year.	Jpeg	09/23/15 10:27 AM

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