Hi Wonder,
My two cents - I think it would be good to pop your head out with something? Show him that you neither hate him nor are destroyed? Might help with the guilt he is surely feeling. My thought was maybe to ask him to do you a small favor with your computer or something & see what his reaction is. Don't know why I thought of this exactly. Oh I guess because I am imagining he feels terrible about the papers and would like a chance to do something for you. Just MHO, something to add to your reflections when you make a decision. Thank you again for your lovely supportive post on my thread.