I really like reading your situation. Especially this big part of me that seeks Hollywood justice. It sounds like there is still some love and passion there, but it also sounds like you may be right. She is trying to figure out a way to regain her control over you. Why is she saying things like that to you when she has a boyfriend????
You are doing amazing at this. I'm going to reread your thread (even though our situations are a bit different). Can I ask you how you were able to detach? It seems like you did a lot of GAL (difficult for me cause of kids) . But there is a mental component to it as well, that I'm trying to figure out.
Did you make mistakes with her within first couple of months of BD? Do you think that WAS can sense true detachment from faking it.? Do you feel like Your dating someone pushed things along faster? (Something I am not ready for, and would not do cause I don't think or have proof there is infidelity on his part but just curious).
Thanks Julie!
Last edited by JulieH; 10/03/1505:03 PM.
Me: 42 H: 43 Twins age 5 Physically Separated 7/2015