My wife left the house

[Painter]

It is possible that some of us find it difficult to give you advice because you seem to be set on doing things in a way that is not in accordance with the DB principles. It's not easy to follow them 100% or understand them right away, but you have to put in the work.

Are you following other posters here? That is useful and really necessary.

I'm very sorry to hear that you felt you had to choose between seeing the L and a religious counselor. I hope you rescheduled with the L so you can get access to your daughters.