re: The reasons he riles you this way as opposed to intends to rile you this way.
you're riled - you have to get over this.
why he is whinging - my W does same. "whats your problem - you got everything you want, you are happy no - so get over it". this what I mean about you being free once you get over the hill. you were screwed - you dealt with it - you move on.
not so straight forward for our WASs - they have to reconcile with themselves that they did the screwing. like a loved one is sick and in pain and distressed. then they die. they are free. but the living still have to deal with it. we died, moved on, but they are left to live with it.
this is also just pathetic regression to deal with it in the same way he had learnt to deal with these things before. he hasn't caught up with the game. you're over buddy, those tactics are just so lame, it doesn't deserve a response beyond passing the money to him, and not thinking about it for another second.
M: 6 T: 12 Kids: 2,4 BD: Jan 2015 S: Feb 2015 EA/PA confirmed: Feb2015/Mar2015