dday, as some one who isn't fully up to speed with your sitch I'd say you've stopped being a mr nice guy and that has garnered you the respect from your W. Have you ultimately done a 180 on her by growing your balls back?
- Nobody has ever learnt anything important from happiness and success; problems make us grow - Consult your plan, not your feelings - If you haven't set goals, how can you expect to achieve anything?