BT13, you may have misinterpreted what beckyb said, not sure.
Beckyb, there is every chance your L will charge per letter so ask him why he sent one regarding your H redirecting his mail when you hadn't requested it.
From a male perspective, I'd say tour H was using you as a backup plan and/or he's feeling a little bit guilty so is trying to keep a slender connection with you. But actually that's the same as my first comment, you are his plan B for when it all goes wrong with OW. Having said that the more you detach the greater the chance of you becoming his plan A.
The mail is just a small thing, put it in a bag and forget about it. If he calls asking if there is any say yes, I think so, I'll leave it in the porch as you did before, get him performing to your tune and the more he does it the more he will wonder if he's made the right decision.
Beckyb, you haven't mentioned what you are doing in your GAL activities recently, what do you have planned for the weekend?
- Nobody has ever learnt anything important from happiness and success; problems make us grow - Consult your plan, not your feelings - If you haven't set goals, how can you expect to achieve anything?
