Ghost. My W has been super 'friendly' since she filed. Since then, I have went from catering to her ever whim, to starting to stand up for myself and protect myself. When I have asserted myself, she has backed down and tried to make me happy every time. I grew my balls back, and gained respect from myself and W. I'm not trying to pick fights, just putting my foot down on some issues. I feel better about me, and W isn't any worse towards me. In fact, she may be more real to me then.
Good luck
35 3 boys Not my circus, not my monkeys anymore....