Recap of the week thus far. Earlier in the week, we talked and the talk turned ugly. I kept my cool for the most part but I made a comment on her items being in the MBR. The next day she moved most of her things out and into the bedroom where she has been sleeping for years.
Her birthday was this week too. She made a comment that it was nothing special (referring to my past that I do not make her feel special). I shared how can I make her feel special when she is not with me (here in the m). Her response was "damn if you do and damn if you don't". I did get a birthday cake (had kids walk in carrying and singing b-day). Awhile back, I got tickets to see a traveling broadway play for all of us; she did not want to go but the kids eventually persuaded her to come along. We all had a nice time.
In the mornings this week she is colder towards me than norm. She talks to me in the evenings about her day. But after the kids go to bed, she reverts back to being cold (isolated) even while we sit on the same coach together.
Today I discovered she withdrew $2k in cash from bank account this week. Should I ask inquire?