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Jeanne Safer Forgiving and not forgiving

V, thanks for the suggestion. I will explore. Interesting premise, for sure. I hope you are well.

Sunny, I have been really civil lately. I don't initiate conversations, or say hello/goodbye/goodnight, but when W talks to me, I try to sound friendly and matter-of-fact. Hardest thing I have ever done. This is in place of replying to the email she wrote to me. I liked V's reply "Thank you for your thoughts, I appreciate you expressing them.", but I just decided to let it be.

I received another anonymous text last night. I am pretty sure they are coming from OM because they typically arrive after I have seen him stalking me. I don't know if my W is aware of the fact that he is sending them to me. I am so amazed at how little there is to do about it. Cops won't file a report unless I can prove who sent them.

Originally Posted By: SunnyB
letting go of anger, hurt, fear, resentment, bitterness, grudge-holding. Because who do you want to be? You get to choose.
Hard to do in the midst of it all.

RAI


Me 48 XW 45
lots o' kids
D April 2017