Have you posted your story? I hope you will.

Have you read all the links Cadet provides? They are tools for you to use. That is how you learn to detach, etc.

You must detach and GAL. Ask anyone who reconciled, and they will tell you that they had to do these two things, first.

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Married living in the same house with everything as it was before but no connection


For a year? Change the dynamics in the relationship, and it will change.

No, AD's won't take the pain away. It helps cope, but if you do nothing to change things, then nothing will take the pain away.




It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!