Today I'm wondering if I should somehow let my H know that I wouldn't necessarily consider this OW a dealbreaker. I'm starting to realize that he must have been really hurting to feel that this was the only way out. I fear that by telling him second thoughts were no longer an option for him, I have shut the door on the possibility of reconciliation entirely. Even if he started to consider it, he wouldn't approach me about it anymore.
On the other hand, I'm learning that if I want to do something, I should probably do the opposite. Does anyone have any experience with this?
Me: early 30s Husband: early 30s Married 3 years, together 6 No children
ILYBINILWY: 3/2015 He asks for divorce: 4/2015 Moves out for good: 5/2015 I start the divorce process 8/2015
