Thanks Sandi,

Truly some great info and advice Sandi thank you. I know now I was too quick and hopeful to try an reconnect this soon. She is Def. in the thick of the fog with this A.

She found to friends to go out with and cut back on the time she sees her family and old friends. They all have advised against what she is doing so she found new allies, acquaintances that are cool with her choice because they are not familiar.

I've done ok with not pursuing her, I honestly spend some much time GAL, that I probably see her maybe 3 nights a week. She can be hot or cold, it really just depends on the day.

Thanks for checking out my sitch gnicks9, I will def follow yours.


Me - 34 W - 34
T- 4
M- 2
No Kids
BD - 4/18/15 ILYBNILWY
EA/possible PA 06/20/15
Seperated 09/28/15