Hi Tinydoc! Just dropping by to check out your sitch and say thanks for stopping by mine. To address what you said above, I slipped and texted or e-mailed my XH a few times too and it is hard. You seem to be doing well, though.

I agree with what Vanilla said about the timing. She mentioned being 18 months in and I'm a year in and I still have days that are really low. Our 10th anniversary would've been Oct. 29, and I already know that will be a tough day. Fortunately I have a friend whose birthday is that day, so I'm hoping to focus on that. smile

Hang in there! It WILL get better.


Me 52, H53
Bomb drop 9/29/2014
Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014
Marriage #2 12/31/2019
5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships)
6 grandkids